Here is a guest article by Rhonda Ryder Founder of KidsAwakening.com
One of the best ways to share The Law of Attraction with your children and teenagers is to model how this law works in your own life. In fact, modeling the benefits of The Law of Attraction is far more effective than trying to teach your children these concepts with words.
Sure, we learn from the words in books and movies…but if you really want your children to understand that they are creators of their own realities, living this truth yourself is the best thing you can do.
How Can You Model Law Of Attraction Thinking To Your Children?
When something you’ve been trying to create manifests in your life, let your children know. If they’re not interested, that’s okay. This isn’t about preaching or pushing this way of thinking on anyone, including your kids.
However, you could make a habit of allowing them to overhear you telling a friend about your experiences with The Law of Attraction. Or you could invite someone over to watch an enlightening movie with you. If your child is interested, they might join you. The most important thing is to let your kids see you as being joyful. Do your best to constantly raise your vibration.
What If You’re Stuck At A Low Vibration?
So what should you do if you’re going through a hard time? Should you hide your feelings from your children in fear that you might be setting a bad example?
You cannot really hide sadness, depression or anger from your children. They pick up on just about everything, including your energy or vibration. No matter how much you put on a happy face, they can still feel your energy. In addition, you may often find that your children reflect back the emotions that you, yourself are trying to hide.
If you are guided to do so, and if it seems appropriate, why not use this opportunity to be honest with your children and tell them that you’re feeling sad, angry or frustrated. You don’t need to tell them the details of your situation. If you’re not sure what to say, remind yourself to be in the moment and the words will come. If the words don’t come, then just “be†with your child. This is also a form of communication and love.
You could also mention to your kids that you would like to work your way up the emotional ladder to feeling better. Why? For one, you enjoy feeling better and two, you know that by feeling better, you will attract more and more of the things you want into your life.
The trick is to do whatever you can to keep raising your emotions toward joy. The books that continue to help me raise my vibration are the Abraham-Hicks books, especially, “Ask And It Is Given.â€
Again, your first responsibility is to take care of yourself. Sure, things come up and we have challenges. Work through it and don’t beat yourself up, but know that by expanding your understanding of The Law of Attraction and applying this understanding to your own life, you will provide a powerful example for your children and teenagers to do the same.
Rhonda Ryder is the founder of KidsAwakening, an organization dedicated to teaching parents how to share The Law of Attraction with their kids and teens. She lives in Longwood, Florida with her husband and two children and has studied Metaphysics for over 25 years.
Rhonda is offering a Free 20-page Guide called “The 7 Secrets of Sharing The Law of Attraction With Your Kids & Teens†which you can claim now at www.KidsAwakening.com
She can be reached at Rhonda@KidsAwakening.com.
Show by example is a great point. You only create your reality and it is the same for kids. Another great article Rhonda.
Hi - turns out one of my kids catches me when I’m not in a good space and reminds me to turn it around. I’m a BIG fan of Ester and the way she teaches the law of attraction. I listen to her talks daily - keeps me on the right track. Love it.
It is so true that kids can read us very clearly. When we understand this and teach by example, by the quality of our experiences we give them and ourselves such a gift. We help them use the law of attraction right now and more importantly we help them integrate the idea to be honest and open with their feeling. This allows them to stay tuned into their emotional guidance system.
I think Rhonda’s work is valuable to help parents and kids connect on LOA.
Enjoy
BZ
To be honest with children is a good advice. Children understand situations much better than we think they do.
Phyllis I also listen to Esther often, just the other day in fact. When she mentioned that you can’t create the reality of kids it was a very enlighting moment for me.
I agree Venky. They understand way more than we think. I know I did when I was a kid.
Nan from createyourownrealitynow.com
My twin 11 year old girls are master manifestors! I showed them the movie the secret’ and ‘what the bleep do we know” many many times, and they listen to Abraham Hicks when they go to sleep. Within one month of Emily seeing “The secret” she manifested a game she wanted that was over $100! She saw the scene where the boy wants the bike and keeps thinking about it. She asked me questions like “if I think about it all the time I will get it?”. As long as you are happy about it and excited and believe that it is coming to you, I relied. She was so sweet, one day she came home from school and was upset. She told me “mom, I can’t think about it when I am in school all day and so I will never get it!”. I explained it was not necessary to think of it every minute. I was amazed when she told me she had received it, as she had planned on 3-4 months to save the money, b ut other opportunities for making $ popped up and she did it in less then a month!
I am most interested in how much I have changed in how I am with them the more I integrate the law of attraction myself. I was a mom that very much wanted to make everything happy all the time. I wanted to protect them from any pain or hurt. Now I look at them as masters of light and powerful beings creating their own reality just like any adult. It is a lot of fun because I am still here for them, but I am more relaxed and get to watch them blossom within themselves and become masters of their emotions. I think they have actually become more in control of their minds and emotions because I am not trying to fix things anymore.
I am writing a book abut how to master la of attraction and watching kids get to master it at such a young age fills my heart with joy! Imagine what a wonderful world we would have, full of self empowered people if all kids were told of who they really are and how the world really works. I highly recommend empowering any children around you, it is how to truly change the world and create your reality, now!
Hello,
It’s so great to hear so many people share! I used to think I needed to preach LOA to my kids, but that just turned them off. Being an example is the more effective route.
Phyllis, I can relate to your kids “catching” you when you’re not in a good space and Nan, I love your stories about your daughter deliberately manifesting and mastering their emotions. Wow! THIS is what I’m talking about. This really is exciting. I simply MUST interview you!
I, too have experienced amazing breakthroughs with my kids when I stopped trying to fix, control and protect them all the time.
For one, I have had a hard time with my 15 year old son playing video games…(especially the loud, fighting ones). I’ve since come to the realization that I simply do not “get” or “relate” to this male/testosterone form of entertainment. But playing these games seems to give him a lot of joy. This is what he looks forward to.
We have finally reached a workable situation where he can play when I’m not home. I still don’t like it or understand it but who says I have to understand it? Our relationship is so much better without me trying to “control” him - or without me judging what he likes to do.
Rhonda